Children do you get it?

 NO Tools Loaned, you should already have them. you were given them when you were growing up or were you absent on every damn day they were being issued? HuH! well, what?

 That's right you were given tools to keep, to use and help you survive life when you got out into the real world, not the world of lolly pop's and unicorns your parent's have been providing for the past 18 years. But geeze you don't seem to be able to use them. I see you struggling to comprehend the basic's and it is sad. In a crisis situation your going to be eaten. As a young adult you should be able to understand that if you payed a bunch of money to go to a trade school,knew your credit's would NOT be usable anywhere else you chose to go to school. And then chose to quit before you complete a simple two year program well, hell your tools are not sharp your lucky you have a fork with two tine's. I thought you knew better than that. If you get a GED and don't finish school because you have emotional hang up's from your mommy n daddy and think it's ok because you don't like school anyway. Well screw that you know you can't get by on your good luck and looks your going to get or be knocked up and bitching about how your welfare check is late, and you want to go out ho-in with your friends and fine yo' self a man. 

 I would like to see kids less co dependent on parents and boyfriends/girlfriends and having to be in a relationship and not independent free thinking people. Kids think life revolves around them and they are the priority, they are but not in the respect to others no one person should have the world revolve around them in a family, life is about compromise, love and co operation, to me that's is family. I know many boy's who have had a girlfriend and have that girlfriend act like a wife, all through school they are inseparable the family accept's them and takes them on trips, vacations, dinner's, then on the one faitful day, usually near the end of the Senior year of high school the bomb is dropped and the boy happy to have his woman and get laid regularly is left at the curb shaking his head and wondering what he did wrong. He gives up his invitations to collage sports programs the stepping stone to an education. And now at the age of almost 25-30 he is looking for love in all the wrong places because he is lonely and doesn't have direction, he finds solace in his buddy's who have girlfriends and he is still the third wheel and doesn't fit in. Or he drinks a LOT not a little not to relax but to be drunk to forget. These are broad generalizations but they do involve actual people, people I know and have watch live their live...L I V I N' Many were given the tools and along the way they lost them. I don't loan tools anymore I don't really answer questions when asked "what should I do", My opinion doesn't matter, it all boils down to what you decide, what you feel is right. you had the tools, find them and use them, feel good about yourself and live with your decision with no regret even if it will cause you great pain and hardship in the long run, you decided it you own it. Have a great Monday and remember the week is almost over only 6 day's left.